Everyone is Unique in Their Own Way

No Need to Try to Look Good in Everyone's Eyes

Do you ever feel like no matter what you do, there's always something wrong in other people's eyes?

Sometimes you're praised, sometimes you're criticized, and often you're not even considered.

If so, you're not alone.

In fact, everyone has a different point of view in judging us, and that's normal.

 

We're Seen Through Other People's Eyes

Think about it.

• In the eyes of your best friend, you might be interesting, funny, or even inspiring.
• In the eyes of an envious person, you might come across as arrogant or annoying.
• To your loving family, you're their pride, no matter what.
• But, to people who don't know you, you might be just another person passing by.

Everyone sees us through their own glasses, based on their own experiences, feelings, or even problems.

So, do we really need to bother about all that?

 

Why We Don't Need to Satisfy Everyone

Doing good is important, but trying to please everyone is unrealistic.

For example, let's say you want to help a friend who's struggling, but instead of thanking them, they think you're a smartass.

Is this your fault? No.

It's just about how others perceive your actions.

Instead of trying so hard to look good in everyone's eyes, why not focus on doing things that you think are right?

The important thing is to do everything with sincere intentions.

 

Being the Best Version of Yourself

Life is simpler when we focus on the things that really matter, like:

1. Recognize a Supportive Environment

Find people who truly accept you for who you are. Those who understand your struggle, who appreciate your process, and not just the end result.

2. Stop Comparing Yourself

You are unique in your own way. There's no need to feel less just because your life looks different from others.

3. Keep Doing Good

Not to look good to others, but for your own happiness. Trust me, that positive energy will come back to you someday.

 

Focus on Sincerity, Not Praise

Everyone has their own judgment of us.

Some think we're good, some don't. But will their judgment really determine us?

But, will their judgment really determine our lives? No, they won't.

In the end, the most important thing is how we see ourselves and how we feel while living this life.

So, let's start living life more lightly.

No need to try to look good in everyone's eyes.

Just focus on doing your best and make sure everything is done with good intentions.

Share your experience in the comment section about how you deal with other people's views, or share this article with your friends who need a little reminder to be themselves.

Language: Bahasa Indonesia